I used to not participate in New Year’s Resolutions or Goal-Making. I felt it was setting myself up for failure, especially if I did not achieve what I wanted in life. So, I used to avoid doing resolutions, almost like the plague. However, in 2017, God has given me a greater motivation to make and achieve goals. The goals that I will make for the year 2018, I believe, not only feed my drive for success but cater to my two overarching purposes in life:
- To glorify God in everything.
- To show people the love that God has already constantly shown me.
Here are some of my 2018 goals and how I strive to achieve them:
Spiritual/Personal Goals
- Cope with my anger issues more effectively
- Count to ten before expressing my anger.
- Take deep breaths when anxious or uncomfortable.
- Think about the positives of the current situation (even if it is a mostly negative situation)
- Try to refocus on my overarching purposes in life (Glorify God and show people God’s love)
- Try to think about the negative consequences of inappropriately expressing my anger, and so avoid becoming angry in the first place.
- Get out of my comfort zone to glorify God at least once a week.
- Do something kind for another person even if it inconveniences me a little bit.
- Don’t complain or get upset when asked to do something uncomfortable, but see it as an opportunity to glorify God and die to self.
- Read through the Old Testament in a year and also part of the New Testament (since I will have already read through it this year. At this time of writing, I am only 5 or 6 chapters away from finishing Revelation)
- Read at least 2 Old Testament chapters a day, and 1 New Testament chapter on Weekends.
- If I miss a day, do the readings on the day that I missed.
- Don’t worry as much about things.
- Think of ways to solve the problem/issue at hand other than worrying
- Memorize Romans 8:28.
- Focus on how God will bring good out of the situation and focus on His goodness and that He’s not trying to hurt me.
- Memorize Jeremiah 29:11.
- Think more positively about others.
- Say to myself, “This person is not out to maliciously hurt me. They just want to get through the day.”
- Remind myself that everyone has a story and is probably going through something or has gone through something that is painful or challenging. (Re: “Be kind quote”)
- Recall positive qualities about said person or persons.
- Thank everyone that does something truly kind for someone (including me).
Work (Day Job) goals
- Get a reward (a pin) by providing excellent customer service.
- Ask myself, “How can I go above and beyond for this person?”
- Walk the customer whenever possible to the item they are looking for.
- Apologize if you cannot find the item the customer is looking for, and ask someone else who knows the item better than me.
- Look for every possible way (if possible) to help customers find the item or items they are looking for.
- Pass the test to become a department manager
- Learn at least 3 department manager related things
- Be more intentional about being a “to-be leader” in my department
- Take the test by August 2018.
- Get returns done in an average of less than 45 minutes
- Walk the department before work or the first few minutes of work to see if there are any changes to the mods to know the department even better.
- Be willing to work different areas of the store, so to know other departments too.
- Learn at least 3 department manager related things
- Set up times with manager I (or whoever the manager is) to learn DM stuff.
- Take the iniative to ask the current department manager or managers about how to do certain things.
- Practice more DM things, over and over, until I am good at said thing.
- Be a trained cashier.
- In January or February of 2018, ask to train for cashiering.
- Train at least 2x a week.
- Memorize and learn what is needed to be known for cashiering.
Blogging Goals
- Get started with affiliate marketing.
- Find a Hosting Website
- Join at least 3 affiliate marketing programs/companies.
- Review products for them at least 2 to 3 times a week.
- Earn money from affiliate marketing (see goal #1 under blogging)
- Write a total of at least 200 posts (combined from this year and 2015 year)
- Consistently write at least 2 X a week.
- Write a variety of posts but sticking to the motivational/spiritual/social justice themes.
- Write more poetry or how-to posts.
- Get up to a total of at least 500 posts total.
- (See goal #4 under blogging)
- Write a blog post at least 2x a week
- Set up a time before or after work to write OR write at least a blog post each of the two days that I am off work.
- Have at least 10 different topics to write about each month (probably more) so I will have content to write about.
- Write a little more poetry reflecting on spiritual/ motivational/social justice themes, of course.
- Get more followers on Pinterest and Twitter
- Join more blogging groups
- Engage more with others on these websites
- Promote other people’s content
These are some of my goals for the year 2018. I know it is quite a hefty list, and I may not achieve all of them. However, this list will motivate me to live better and become a more engaged and motivated individual in life. What are your goals in 2018? Do you also avoid making goals like I did in the past, or do you make resolutions every year? Please feel free to comment.