I recently watched a video about a husband who wanted a divorce from his wife, but she had a request before he could go through with the decision—He had to carry her to the front door of their home each day for a month. He did so, and as the days went by, she grew increasingly thinner. Something also happened inside him, and he began to feel renewed love for his wife, even telling his lover whom he had an affair with that he no longer wanted to divorce his wife. However, by that time, it was too late. His wife had died on his way back home to her. She wanted her husband’s love so badly that she made him carry her just as he did when he first married her. The thing is that her husband did love her in the end, but it was too late for her to know that. You can see this video at: https://www.facebook.com/powerofpositivity/videos/1015526229483237/
I am not married, but this video can apply to all of us,
married or not. After I watched this
video, I almost cried because I thought about all the people that were hurting
in my midst, that I didn’t know about, some of whom I had taken for
I’m speaking to myself, as much as I am to you, the reader,
but I beg you—Do not be that husband in that video who almost divorced his wife
and was too late in appreciating all the things she did for him. Do not be the parent, child, friend,
employee, teacher, student, or boss that realized too late what your loved ones
and those who cared about you have done for you. Do not be so busy with life, or your own
self-serving desires that you emotionally and psychologically kill the souls of
those who you love the most. Do not be
so self-absorbed in your own little world that you forget the needs and the
struggles of those around you.
If we don’t appreciate all that has been given to us—the
things that we failed to appreciate will be taken away from us.
For our family–Do you have a wife, husband, father, mother,
or child that serves selflessly for the entire family without expecting
anything in return? Has a family member or members sacrificed everything for
your happiness and joy? Do not think that they will always be able or willing
to do that for you. Do not take them for granted. Sincerely say to them, “Thank
you and I love you. I appreciate all you have done for me.” Treasure them as greater than anything that
this world has to offer. Be willing to
serve them with no expectation of return. Be willing to sacrifice your life for
For our friends—Do you have a true, blue friend who doesn’t
leave you when you face troubles or trials in life, always encourages you to be
your best, and who loves you as you are?
Do not take advantage of them for your own selfish desires—lest you lose
someone great and wonderful! Thank them,
and be willing to return the favor should such an opportunity arise for
you. Treasure them as more valuable than
gold or silver. Be a friend to them.
For our co-workers—Do you know a fellow co-worker who has
always helped you out when you were in a snag? Do you know an employee who
consistently goes above and beyond, not only for their own benefit, but for the
good of the whole company? Thank them. Bosses, you don’t have to give them extra
perks, or treat them better than others.
Bosses and employees—take the time to appreciate those who make your
work life something that you can enjoy or, at least, make more bearable. Do not wait until the employee quits, gets
transferred, or somehow leaves the company to let them know how much you
appreciated them or to realize how much they contributed to your life. Notice these people now, before it is too
late for you—and for the company you work for.
For our teachers —Is there a special teacher or teachers
that have positively impacted your life? Do not wait until it is too late to
thank them for the impact they made in your life. Let them know they are
appreciated and that you are learning valuable life lessons from them. Often, teachers get the brunt of the blame
and criticism when things go wrong, but when they do something good, it is
either brushed aside, or it is barely noticed.
Thanking them and doing what you can to show you care for them will keep
these teachers motivated to keep doing the good they have done.
Who in your life have you taken for granted? Who in your life do you need to thank? Take time to thank them today. If we take time to appreciate each of the people in our lives that has positively impacted us, not only will the other person feel loved and valued, but you will also have the joy and peace in knowing that you said everything that you needed to say—before it was too late.